帮助孩子过渡敏感期

小孩子到了一定的阶段会喜欢讲从周边大人那里学来的不文明的话，即便他们不清楚所讲的话的意思。根据讲话的语境，有时候孩子们所讲出来的不太文明的话可能会让人觉得可爱，而有时会让人感到惊讶，但是这样的行为应该要及时的纠正和引导。
当我面对孩子们说不文明的话的时候，我会尽量用其他事情去吸引他们的注意力或礼貌性地无视这个行为，记住，孩子们经常不理解是什么意思，但是他们会感受到你的反应，这也正是他们所想要的效果。这时候的生气与惩罚是不能从本质上改变他们的。
通过慢慢的耐心引导，顺利地帮助孩子们度过这一敏感期，对他们的长远发展才是有所裨益的。
All children at a certain stage are apt to use naughty words that they pick up from adults around them, even though they don’t actually know what the words mean. It can be cute or shocking, depending on the context, but it’s a habit that should be directly addressed to change the behavior.
When I hear a child say a naughty word, I will either re-direct their attention or pointedly ignore the attempt to get a reaction from me. Remember, the kids often don’t know the meaning but they do know your reaction, and that is often what they are seeking. Anger followed by punishment won’t change their nature, but it can turn a bad habit into a war of wills.
Patiently guiding the children through this period until the phase passes is the best approach for their long-term development.

Teacher Ann

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